Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Interview With Matchmaker Janis Spindel

BDD: What does it take to be matchmaker?

To be a matchmaker, one needs to be extremely attentive to detail, a great communicator, and a impeccable listener. Most importantly you must have a keen sense of people and their needs!

BDD: How can I tell if I need a matchmaker?

People often utilize my services when they start to make a habit of choosing the wrong people for themselves. It’s also common for men and women to seek out the services when they do not have the time to be active in the dating scene. They hire me to do the editing for them!

BDD: How do you help your clients, what’s unique about your approach?

I help my clients in any way that I can. My approach is to give my clients my full attention at all times. I will always be honest, dedicated and relentless throughout the entire process, which results in my outstanding success.

BDD: How would you convince a skeptic to reach out to a matchmaker?

Any skeptic that I’ve come in contact with over the years, spends no more than 5 minutes with me, and their worries and hesitations are gone! They know I’m the real deal!

BDD: Can you give us an example of a success story?

Too many to count! I’ve had 21 years of success, and hundreds of men and women now living happily together!

BDD: Would you ever turn anyone down? Why? Why not?

It’s rare that I do turn down a potential client, but it has happen before. The only reason I would chose to do so, would be because he isn’t realistic with his expectations. I’m not a dating service, I’m a matchmaker, so I refuse to take on anyone that tries to take advantage of my hard work in an unproductive manner.

BDD: What is the most common trouble with which people come to you?

For the most part, I find that a lot of men and women come to me tainted by the dating world. They have this misconception that all of the “good ones” are taken. If that were the case, I wouldn’t still be in business!

BDD: What’s the most valuable piece of advice you can give that applies to all?

As I always say to my clients, you have to treat the dating process like a job. If you are out of a job, what do you do? You get out there and start applying, do whatever you can to get back into the “game!” Treat the single dating scene just the same. Make yourself available, and continue to work towards your goal!

BDD: What is the number one mistake that you people make looking for their match?

The number one mistake people make would be that they start the process with unrealistic expectations.  If one goes into the dating scene with this attitude, the outcome can be frustrating and disheartening.

BDD: What’s your take on online dating?

I fully support online dating and always have. Online dating is simply an additional avenue for meeting people. Recently, I’ve launched my version of an online dating site called 2lovetoday. It’s a unique version of online dating that combines with personal matchmaking. My team is very excited about our new launch, and we’re expecting great success!


Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Ask Janis Spindel

Ask Janis Spindel your most burning questions and she will answer you.

ASK Janis

Friday, February 11, 2011

Online Dating

Online dating and online matchmaking are very different. Janis Spindel knows what the difference is and offers a platform for her members.

Janis Spindel launched the first ever online matchmaking site by offering its community an opportunity to network online with the touch of old school matchmaking.

Members are given full access to search for like minded members in their regions and do three things...
Video chat
Meet at "Ashley Suggests" places off line using partners like Yelp.

All this for a one time $25 approval fee to belong to Janis Spindel's VIP Men's Virtual Lounge.

(75 percent of all applicants are accepted and its opened to all races, sexes, religions, and sexual preferences by Janis Spindel gay online matchmaking division)

Since its a matchmaking site run by live matchmakers, approval is based on just that...Janis, Ashley and her staff must feel each member is commitment and marriage minded before they are approved and then charged $25. Those are her rules.

Janis and Ashley give its members a one year full access pass (two years until further notice since they are new) and then their profiles are purged.

"Since people to come to me to get married, I will continue to provide that service online."


Friday, January 7, 2011

Matchmaking Questions Where are all the men in the city?

With droves and droves of men in the city; recent estimates have indicated that
the ratio of single women to single men in NYC is currently over 2:1. It is no wonder why there are so many women fearing that they will be spending another Valentine's Day watching Casablanca alone on their couch.

Where are all the men in the city? How can you find them? Wouldn't it be nice if there was someone that could tell you exactly where to find New York's most eligible bachelors?

Relationship expert and Matchmaker extraordinaire Janis Spindel, CEO of Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking, Inc., knows exactly where they are. Janis, famous for 'owning the minds of men' is the 'Zagat' guide for locating men and is 'Wikipedia' guide for finding love and making relationships work.

♥ Janis has over 20 years of experience and currently has over 945 marriages to her credit.
♥ JSSM, Inc. is a sophisticated, boutique-style matchmaking service dealing with upscale professional singles.
♥ Her clients and members are located all over the country and is always on the move.
♥Janis has written two best-selling books: How to Date Men (Plume/A member of Penguin Group (USA) Inc.) and Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year (Harper Collins/Regan Books).
♥ Janis has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, The New Yorker, and New York Magazine and her extensive media coverage includes national television segments on Dr. Phil, CBS The Early Show, NBC The Weekend Today Show, 60 Minutes II.

For additional information on Janis and to view Janis' press coverage visit