Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Matchmaker Hits The Town Looking for Men

Janis Spindel University takes a student out on the town:

It's Friday, December 18th, 2009 and I feel like a Mack truck just hit me because I just hit about 25 bars, hotels and restaurants. Took one of my students out to show her how to meet a successful, marriage-minded man in an upscale professional place and boy oh boy oh boy did we boogie!

First, we started off in New York City at a restaurant called TAO ... that was a complete mob scene... a little too crowded, (not the right crowd )- we were in and out of there!

Then we went next door to The Four Seasons Hotel, to the famous bar 57/57- then we were in and out of there and off we went to Cipriani's at the Sherry Netherlands Hotel on 5th Avenue- in and out of there. Then we went to La Caprice- the famous club from the UK at the Pierre Hotel in New York City. Then we went to the Plaza Hotel to the famous Oak Room bar. Then we went to BLT steak- a great place to meet men- every time I've gone there the bar has been packed.(not this time??) Then we started getting hungry and so we went to Geisha- great great restaurant, every time I've been there, I've gotten somebody married that I met through somebody that I met at Geisha. So we sit down and the place is not that crowded- we were going to have dinner.

I of course start a conversation with the couple to the left of us- a blonde and of course an older man and they're not married and he goes back and forth to Arizona and she lives in New
York. I'm with again one of my students and we start a conversation about the fact that she's single and I say to him, "So, do you have any single guys for her?" and he says no and about ten minutes later he proceeds to say, (he taps her on the shoulder,) and he says, "I have a guy for you!" and he starts describing this divorced 46 year old Jewish fellow who has no children but wants them, who is very bright, very funny, very successful, lives in Manhattan and he really sounds perfect for her. I got the chills from my head to my toes- they went right through my body- she is going to marry this man Bruce. I'm telling you she is going to meet this man Bruce and I'm going to take credit for it.!! And we sat there talking to them for awhile and then a couple down at the other end of the restaurant because the room was not crowded yet heard the conversation and heard what I did so then I started a conversation with them. They knew who I was- the girl came over and said, "You're a celebrity- I know who you are. All of my friends came to you."

Gave her a card, then the couple to the right said what are we missing out on. Who are you? She was from Paris, he was from Scottland- absolutely unbelievable, gave them a card. Now we're going to wait for this guy Bruce to call her- hopefully it will be within 24 to 48 hours, but if not I already have a game plan- we did get their card so we can follow up plus I got his name I can google him and find him and track him down.!!

And then the adventure started... we left Geisha and went next door to Serafina, then we went over to the Regency Hotel- we were in and out of there. Then we went to David Burke and Donatella town house- in and out of there, then we went to David Burke fishtail- we were in and out of there. Then we decided to walk over to 3rd avenue to Atlantic Grill- the place was packed solid- didn't see anybody that we liked there so we left. Then we went to 1st avenue to Campagnolla- that place was packed, but we didn't see anybody there. Then we walked over to Elio's on 2nd avenue- very upscale restaurant that has extremely good looking, successful people- I bumped into two men that I knew, met another guy there. Then we walked over to Elaine's. Then she petered out on me- I didn't peter out on her and she said, "I can't believe this, but my feet are killing me and we are going to call it a night." So four hours later, up up up upscale places, the place to meet successful marriage minded men. You have to be out there, you don't know unless you're out there. Not every night can be a winner, but if she ends up marrying this guy Bruce, it will all work out.
Good luck ladies!

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Matchmaking and Dating Tips for Women: Logical locations to meet and pick up successful marriage minded men.

Matchmaking and Dating Tips for Women: Logical locations to meet and pick up successful marriage minded men.

Shop for Your Brother
Another great place to meet men is in the men’s section of upscale department stores. Places like Bergdorf’s for men, Barney’s, and Saks Fifth Avenue sell beautiful men’s clothing. Shop for your dad, brother, cousin or best male friend! Ask for advice from a guy in the store that you want to meet. What a great excuse to talk to him and get his opinion.

Even if you know where you’re going, ask for directions anyway! Being lost is a perfect excuse to start a conversation with any man, especially if you’re shy. What gentleman isn’t going to help a lady in distress?!

Become alumni and attend events held by your college or university. All schools have websites where past grads can reconnect. I know several men and women who have met old classmates and either rekindled old flames or started new fires.

Share a Space
The “summer share” has been the classic New York City single’s way of escaping the city heat and hooking up with new people. If you don’t live near a beach, think lake or mountain resorts. Or, you can consider taking your two weeks in summer at a beach community and take a house with a couple of single friends. Amazing things can happen in two weeks at the beach! Every community has vacation spots that attract singles. I think the beach and resort environment break down barriers for people who might normally be less inclined to reach out to strangers.

Switch Lanes
If you commute to work on a train or bus, change the time you go as often as you can. Even if it’s just a couple minutes of a change of “scenery,” these different times will bring about new people. And if you drive, think about switching to a park-and-ride system, which will put you on a commuter bus. Change as often as you can. See who’s going where and when.

Outdoor Exercise
The same workout in the same old place may have muted your social life. As soon as the weather gets warm, take your routine outside. Running tracks are man magnets as are tennis and racquetball courts and walking paths.

No Take Out
Cancel your subscription to your paper right now and start buying it yourself along with your morning coffee. Try a different newsstand or coffee shop every week. Buy the guy in front or in back of you in line his morning paper or latte. Men really do love a woman who pays. Plus, all men are suckers for gifts. End takeout service too. Instead of dialing up unhealthy food, visit the best gourmet food shop in town, and get delicious, healthy carryout. Remember, many single men don’t like to cook and don’t always want to eat in restaurants. You’ll meet them at the takeout counter!

Best, Janis

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Matchmaker Holds VIP Free Tele-Seminar

Matchmaker Janis Spindel will hold her next VIP Free Tele-Seminar series to Club JLove members this coming week. We will discuss how, where, when and get ready to find and meet your man. After 18 years of interviewing thousands of ladies, and owning the minds of her men clients, Janis will reveal it all in this ASK Janis series. Call or e-mail the office for information.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Matchmakers Logical Process to Compromise or Settle

Matchmakers Logical Process to Compromise or Settle will help you analyze that you don't need to compromise or settle. Just responsibly lose some of your analytical items on your list.

These specially disciplined matchmaking concepts help you through the process of deciding which items on your list should you lose.

As an example, if you have never been married before and don't have any children and want to find a man to have children with, the only logical process you have to go through is begin to look for a mirror image of yourself.

Look at men, who have never been married before, who you can grow together with and experience with.

On the other hand, if you are older, been married before and or have children, the men appropriate for you will most likely already have been married and have children of their own. You most probably need to be open to that.

Its not compromising or settling, its a process of losing part of your list. Nobody should compromise or settle, why should you.

The probability of meeting a man in your situation is great, so don't compromise or settle, just lose a part of your list.

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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

How To Find Men Who Are In Your League

The step by step process to finding men in your league. First, analyze what you mean by "in your league." Do you mean monitary league, do you mean education, or what.

How did you get in this league. Was it on your own, was if from a divorce or a settlement?

This is the first step in finding men who are in your league.

Join me for my free tele-seminars and learn the step by step process of finding men who are in your league.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Matchmaker off to Beverly Hills and SF

Ladies, it makes all the sense in the world to meet with me and see if you qualify for my new client. As you know, there is a process that occurs and it takes 30 minutes for me to meet with you in a group setting and find out if my client is for you. If you want to meet with me, then logically you must follow these steps and it begins with calling my office and setting up a meeting when I am there.
Best. Janis

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Serious Matchmaking Inc. Logical Locations to Meet Men

Serious Matchmaking Inc. offers logical locations to meet men. Janis Spindel takes you through a step by step process of how to meet and pick up men.

Go to youtube and type in Janis Spindel. There will be several videos for you to select and analyze.

Janis is off to Calfornia in search of women for her new client. If you fit the profile of what this client is looking for, then logically, you will be notified.

Please make sure you are registered in my private database, Club JLove.

Best, Janis

Friday, July 17, 2009

Matchmakers Girl Talk

Serious Matchmaking Inc. Presents Americas Top Matchmaker Janis Spindel and her Hamptons Girl Talk August 9th, 2009. Open to 10 Club JLove women only!

Serious Matchmaking Inc. will share with you and explain the step by step process of how to spot a single man and teach you the exact method of what to say and how to say it.

Call the NY office. www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Serious Matchmaking Inc. Logical Locations to Pick Up Men Part 2

Matchmaking Tips for Women- Logical Locations to pick up men

Matchmaker’s logical locations to pick up men. In this blog, you will learn the time tested secrets to meeting men while in your travels. I will give you the perfect location to where these men go. You will be flabbergasted when you see this process work for you, as I have taught others to do.

Matchmakers top places to picking up men:

The gym- the gym is a great place to meet men. They are really focused on working out with their iPods on. They might be on a machine or treadmill where you would have to go in front of them to get their attention. Men want women who take care of their bodies, who lead a healthy life style. So if you are there and he is there, he gets to see your body in full profile.

What you need to do is go up to him and try to add some humor to it. Think of a great one liner on how to pick him up. If you’re not quick minded, don’t worry. Just go up to him so he can see your face and smile at him. Say, “Hello.” Or, if you can’t do that, ask him “are you going to be much longer on the machine.”
Ask him what kind of program he does here. Your initial goal is to make him take his ear phones out of his ear and start the conversation.

If you don’t belong to a gym, the coffee shop is another great place to meet men. In a coffee shop around the world, like Starbucks, most people are rushing in the morning to get to work and business. As you are standing on line, start a conversation. Even if it is not the most creative opening line such as “wow, the weather is really beautiful outside today.” Or, you can be silly and say “what kind of latte do you drink.” You need something to get his attention if you can’t think of a line. It should be quick witted, tongue and cheek sense of humor. Smile, as your smile is your calling card, and simply say “hello.” Or, if you want to be out going, say “my name is…, what’s yours.”

You need to be confident. Confidence is the number one thing that turns on a man. If he was brought up as a gentleman, he will have a conversation with you as you begin to approach him. If he is interested at that point, he will take it to the next level.

Another logical location to meet men is at a sporting event. Sort of a nontraditional location. They are the greatest places in the world. Baseball, basketball, men are at sporting events. It’s a great way to start a conversation. You might be sitting next to him or getting a drink or food at the stand. Or maybe, you are walking around just looking for him and not paying attention to the event. Smile, say hello, and make sure he does not have on a wedding band.

Dog runs are a high percentage “meeting men” location. Take your dog to the dog run. If you don’t have a dog, borrow one. If you can’t borrow a dog, rent a dog. It’s a great place to meet a guy and great way to start a conversation. You have commonality with your dogs. Walk your dog up next to him; run up if you have to. Smile and say hello to him.

You can apply these analytical and methodical locations to pick up men as I have done in my matchmaking service.

My locations to pick up men process is a quick and easy process that's as simple as ABC, yet as thourogh and comprehensive as A-Z.

"I was amazed at how much I could accomplish with Janis' matchmaking tips with locations to pick up men process." DS-Florida-

So when you use these matchmaking tips with locations to pick up men, you know that you've got the most advanced pick up skills in the field.

If you would like more information, please contact us about our free teleseminars to learn all the secrets of Serious Matchmaking Inc.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Matchmaker Janis Spindel Tips on Where to Find Him

Matchmaker Janis Spindel tells the process of where to find him.

Learn more pick up secrets in her books "How To Date Men" and "Get Serious About Getting Married."

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